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Maybe I’m Not Behind

  There is an invisible schedule I sometimes carry around in my head. By this age, I should have done this. I should already own that. I should have reached this milestone, built that life, earned that much, figured this part out. No one handed me this schedule. There are no deadlines printed on it. And yet somehow, it can feel very real. It gets louder when I look at other people. Someone is buying a house. Someone is traveling. Someone’s business is growing. Someone has reached the milestone I’m still working toward. And suddenly, their progress becomes evidence that I am late. But late for what? We passed by this sculpture of fishermen recently, surrounded by the tall buildings of BGC. The contrast struck me. Behind them is a world measured in meetings, deadlines, promotions, targets and calendars. But fishermen have always understood another kind of time. The tide comes in. The tide goes out. There are seasons for going farther and seasons for staying close to shore. You cannot...

23,275 Views in One Day – Thank You, Glow Ladies

  Yesterday, something incredible happened. Glow by Lady E reached 23,275 views in a single day —my highest daily traffic yet. You did it again, Glow Ladies! It's amazing how you keep showing up to keep me company here in my little side of the world. I promise to keep showing up for you, too - whether for coffee or tea (although, I'll drink iced tea as I am sensitive to warm drinks 😊), folding laundry, bringing the kids to soccer practice, shopping till you drop, or for a friend at 3 am, in the cold,  I'm there for you.  I never imagined that so many people will resonate with my soft luxe life that I'm living right now. I was exhausted, very sick, frail, feeling ugly, burned out for years and one day, I said to myself, this is enough. No more. I remember, I was looking for something in my blog, this blog (I have 3, in case you didn't know), when I came across the views. 5k views in a single day. I couldn't believe it! I haven't blogged in 10 years! And so...