My Body Decides Now: How I Know What Products to Keep and Let Go

Lately, I’ve been thinking about what stays.

Choosing beauty.

I said that I no longer let things stay that are not aligned with the life I’m building now.

That’s somewhat easier to say about non-tangible things.

But what if it’s something - a product, an item, that I just bought?

How do I deal with that?

Do I throw it away or give it away immediately?

What I’m learning in this journey is that I need to let different aspects of my being decide.

With product, of course my body decides.

No matter how much I like something, if my body says no, I stop.

Like the lotion above.

The scent lingered too loudly on my skin.

I kept coughing.

But I had just bought it.

And I didn’t quite want to let go of it yet.

So I waited a few days and tried to think of something to do with it.

If my body says a loud no to some products, she also says a loud yes to some.

Like this soap.

I didn’t think much of it.

I just saw the big green sale sign, took a quick look, and decided to add this to my cart.

So far I’ve had success with Korean products, so this was a good gamble.

And it was!

I’ve been using this soap for months and I don’t get a reaction.

The scent is subtle and the soap itself is gentle.

It lasts quite a while, so for the 10 bars for that price?

I got a sweet deal.

I’m learning to listen more.

To myself.

To my heart.

To my mind.

To my body.

Because they guide me to the right path -

Whether that’s beauty, health, wealth, or peace of mind.

So, what happened to the lotion above?

That’s next.

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With elegance and quiet fire,
Lady E

Founder, Glow by Lady E
An editorial space for stories, art, and intentional living

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