Berry Intentional: Because I Refuse to Live on Autopilot
“If it’s not perfect — I don’t buy it.”
That’s not just my rule for clothes now. It’s my rule for life.
I used to live in survival mode.
Every peso, every errand, every meal — all reactive. Whatever was urgent, whatever I could afford, whatever I could grab. I thought I was being productive. I was just exhausted.
Now, I choose to live Berry Intentional.
✨ In the Kitchen: A Calm and Confident Plan
That’s what The Pantry Ledger is for.
This version, Berry Intentional, reminds me that planning my meals is not a chore — it’s an act of self-care. When I map out what we eat, what we already have, and what we need to buy, I’m not just saving money.
I’m saving my sanity.
- No more last-minute panic meals.
- No more forgotten leftovers.
- No more spending on the same things twice.
Each dish we cook is a choice made ahead, not a reaction to pressure.
👗 In the Fitting Room: If It’s Not Perfect, It’s a No
Being intentional doesn’t stop at groceries.
This year, I’ve decided to be ruthless with love when it comes to clothes. I’ve tried on pieces I liked — but didn’t love. They didn’t fit right. The neckline pulled weird. The fabric was itchy. The sleeves were too long.
So I left them behind.
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| I really liked this Poplin button down, but the shoulders were too big. The smaller size was too small on my chest. I liked it so much that it took a long time for me to decide. I even messaged my bestie to help me out. In the end, I decided that it's a no. |
Not because they weren’t pretty. But because they weren’t me.
“If it doesn’t spark confidence or comfort — it doesn’t belong in my closet.”
No more “I'm buying this becaues it's on sale.”
No more “Maybe I can get away with the big shoulders?”
No more “Maybe I can use it one day. ”
My money deserves better. I deserve better.
🧠 In My Mind: No More Autopilot
This is more than budgeting or choosing clothes. This is about rewriting old habits.
I’m finally learning to pause before I purchase.
To breathe before I commit.
To feel what’s aligned before I act.
Living intentionally means I’m no longer running just to keep up. I’m walking with purpose — and peace.
It doesn't matter if I take a long time to decide on something. Shopping shouldn't be rushed. I curate my purchases and think about where and how I would use them and for how long. This is how I respect myself for all my hardwork.
A Legacy of Intention 🍷🇫🇷
If you’ve ever wondered why I’m so picky with my clothes, careful with my pantry, or obsessed with having just the right things (and nothing more), I think I owe it to my great-grandpa — who was French. They say the French have a way of turning even the simplest parts of life into an art form. Whether it’s choosing the perfect dress or making sure my groceries don’t go to waste, I think I inherited that spirit. From curated wardrobes to grocery lists and pantry ledgers, I like my life to be intentional, meaningful, and beautiful. Merci, grand-père. 🍷✨
🍇 So Why Berry Intentional?
Because life is too short to live in default mode.
- I want to be present when I cook for my family.
- I want to choose what I wear with joy, not regret.
- I want to stop wasting time, energy, and money on things that don’t serve me.
This pantry ledger helps me do that — one calm meal at a time.
💬 Reflection Questions for You, Dear Reader:
- What areas in your life feel rushed or reactive?
- How would your days change if you planned with peace instead of pressure?
- What would it look like for you to be Berry Intentional this week?
If this post speaks to you, I’d love to hear from you.
What are you choosing to be intentional about lately?
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