Some days, all I do is buy groceries from different stores. I spend the whole day going to four different stores just to get everything we need. But even the most mundane errands can feel beautiful when I add a touch of softness and luxury.
Luxury doesn’t always mean expensive — it can be sensory, thoughtful, or emotional.
✨ Dressing with Intention
My clothes are arranged a certain way. For years, when I became a mom, dressing up nicely was no longer an option. I was always exhausted and had so many things to do that I would just get whatever was in front. After washing and drying the outfit that I wore, it goes to the back. This system prevented decision fatigue. But it also took the joy out of dressing up, which I loved during my younger years, as you'll see in my archives.
Planning Outfits
Today, I dress with intention. I plan my outfits the day before. Even if it's "just errands." Knowing that I'm put together instantly changes my mood.
I also stopped doing that system of wearing whatever's in front. I'm investing in pretty skirts, comfy shoes, and soft fabrics. I take my time choosing outfits whether it's for a mall day, my son's piano lessons, or running from one place to another to buy things. I curate everything - outfit, accessories, bag, shoes, tote, etc. Everything. It takes me about an hour and a half to finish getting ready, but it's all worth it.
I love wearing long skirts even for long errand days. Long day? Long skirt.
Signature Scent
My signature scent is fruity floral. However, I don't always wear perfume. It's bad for your liver, you know. But I still have some bottles left from the time when I was obsessed with perfume, so I still use them from time to time depending on the occasion.
My current favorite is Miss Dior Blooming Bouquet. But on most days, I opt for this:
The scent? Very floral, A bit sweet, but refreshing. And I like that the scent is not overwhelming even when I spray a little too much. Plus, it's 97% naturally derived ingredients.
“I dress not for the errand, but for the experience of being myself.”
✨ My Errand Bag Ritual
Errands usually mean my hands are full, so I opt for crossbody bags. And of course, I always bring a tote with me.
Inside my tote are small pouches - snack kit, my makeup kit, and another for miscellaneous things.
Handwritten Lists
I still write my shopping lists. Sometimes I just want something tangible to hold onto. I design and make my own paper products, too. There's just something so satisfying about creating these things with my hands that I get to use regularly.
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| This is my daily task list |
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| I use this to leave notes to people when I travel like housekeeping. |
✨ A Soft Pause in Between
When we have a full day, I make sure to pause, sit, and rest every chance I get. I burn energy quickly because of my ADHD, so these pauses matter, even if it's just waiting for the cashier to finish checking out our groceries.
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| Sitting at Landers while waiting for my husband to finish checking out |
This is my little luxury. A moment just for me.
✨ Treats that Spark Joy
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| Nagatoya Nagoya Chocolate Chip and Macadamia Cookies |
I love Japanese food and snacks, so every time I shop at Mitsukoshi, I make sure to get a special treat like these cookies from Nagoya. These are really luxurious.
When I'm tired and stressed, picking up a beauty item always perks me up.
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| BYS Shimmer Stick in Sweetener |
"It's okay to romanticize your errands."
✨ Planning My Route Like a Lady CEO
I always choose stores that I can be comfortable shopping in. The place should have really good air conditioning ( a must-have for MCAS people), clean restrooms, good restaurants, and somewhere I can indulge and have a moment of luxury.
I also group errands by location to avoid overwhelm. I try to maximize our day, but I also keep an open mind that we may not be able to hit all the places that I planned to visit because of time constraints or energy levels.
And of course, my greatest luxury is having my son with me, doing all these errands together. Usually while holding hands, too.
Even my to-do list becomes a love letter to myself when I do it with beauty and intention.
Errands don't have to be boring or too hectic that they leave you frazzled. Pace yourself, adjust your route, and dress up nicely. And don't forget to indulge (whether that's a drink, food, or a beauty item) every now and then.
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'Til my next post,
Stay soft. Stay strong. Stay Glowing.
LET'S GLOW.
With elegance and quiet fire,
Lady E
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